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The Keys to a Successful Marriage

It’s every woman’s dream to have a happy home, but some women lacks what it takes to build a happy home.

I once spoke with an elderly woman, who has been married for 34 years. She is a legal practioner and also a Counselling Consultant.

She explained what marriage is all about. She said marriage is not for girls but for the matured minds.

Below are some of tips she gave on how to have a successful marriage

The keys to a successful marriage.

Talking with your spouse is one of the best ways to keep your marriage healthy and that time is often lost when you’re married, especially if you have kids.

The 3 most important things in a marriage are : Love, Trust and Tolerance.

These elements are more than any other benefit of marriage, may be what some people are seeking and waiting for.

Connection. Most of us want to connect with others in some way. Which are

1.Commitment.
2.Giving.
3.Respect.
4.Trust.
5.Intimacy.

How to start a marriage conversation.

There are three ways to start a marriage conversation, according to Reyes.
1. Be Direct.
2. Talk about your dreams first.
3. Discuss the meaning of marriage.

The Five Stages of Marriage are.

Stage 1 – The Romance Stage. This is also known as the Courtship Phase or the Fantasy Stage, and can last anywhere from 2 months to 2 years or more
Stage 2 – The Disillusionment Stage.
Stage 3 – The Power Struggle Stage.
Stage 4 – The Stability Stage.
Stage 5 – The Commitment Stage.

This is what a woman wants in a marriage.Women want a husband that they can count on, and this hasn’t changed in recent years. Yes, women look to their spouse to be a lover and friend, but they also want him to be supportive and trustworthy. They want to know that he will be there and will be
If you are a woman who wants to be that #relationshipgoals couple, here are 5 essentials for having a healthy relationship.

1.Communication: You’ve definitely heard the very cliché “communication is key.” But here’s the thing – it’s a cliché for a reason. …
2. Respect:  Men loves being respected,when a woman respects her husband, she will surely get his attentions often.
3. Boundaries: Know your boundaries, do not do what will provoke your spouse anger.
4. Trust: Irrespective of what you heard about your spouse, let trust overhaul it.
5.Support: Women are meant to assist their spouse. Support your spouse when the needs arises.

And this is what husband expects from wife in bed?
He doesn’t want you to feel guilty. He doesn’t want to make you self-conscious of how often you have sex. He just wants you to be happy with who you are and all that you do. So when we said
This are the 5 pillars of marriage.
The Five Pillars of a Healthy  Marriage
The first pillar is LOVE.
The second pillar is TRUST. A good marriage cannot be built and sustained without trust.
The third pillar is RESPECT
Fourth is the pillar of UNDERSTANDING.
The 5th and final pillar is FAITH.
And the last for now
This is what’s makes a happy marriage
There are many factors that contribute to a satisfying marriage/relationship such as; Love, Commitment, Trust, Time, Attention, Good Communication including Listening , Partnership, Tolerance, Patience, Openness, Honesty, Respect, Sharing, Consideration, Generosity, Willingness/Ability to Compromise, Constructive

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