By Prosper Mene
During a heartfelt moment that has captivated audiences worldwide, a 46-year-old Nigerian woman, choosing to remain anonymous, shared her deep personal story of lifelong virginity and loneliness on Agidigbo FM’s popular talk show, Kokoro Alate, hosted by Oriyomi Hamzat. The emotional interview, aired in Ibadan, Nigeria, entailed her struggles with societal pressures, her commitment to her values, and her longing for companionship after years of solitude. What followed was an extraordinary response: marriage proposals from suitors in Nigeria, the United Kingdom, and the United States, as reported by Agidigbo FM.
During the broadcast, the woman candidly discussed the challenges of maintaining her virginity in a culture where such choices are often stigmatized. She spoke of her desire for a meaningful relationship, explaining how her commitment to her principles had led to a life of isolation, with few opportunities for romance. Her vulnerability resonated with listeners, many of whom were moved by her courage to share such a private struggle on a public platform. “I’ve been alone for so long,” she reportedly said, her voice breaking with emotion, “but I still hope for someone who will understand and value me.”
The response was swift and overwhelming. Within hours of the broadcast, the radio station received an influx of messages from listeners offering support, encouragement, and, remarkably, marriage proposals. Agidigbo FM confirmed that men from Nigeria and as far afield as the UK and US reached out, expressing admiration for the woman’s strength and sincerity. Some suitors shared their own stories of searching for a partner who values commitment and authenticity, while others were inspired by her resilience in the face of societal judgment.
The station, respecting the woman’s request for anonymity, has not disclosed specific details about the suitors or the number of proposals, but sources close to the program described the response as “unprecedented.” The Guardian Nigeria reported on June 27, 2025, that the woman is currently being supported by the station’s team as she navigates the unexpected attention. “We are ensuring her privacy and well-being come first,” a spokesperson for Agidigbo FM stated. “She is overwhelmed but grateful for the love shown to her.”
This heartwarming story has ignited discussions across social media and in Nigerian communities about societal expectations and the pressures faced by single women. On platforms like X, users have praised the woman’s bravery, with some calling her story a reminder that “it’s never too late to find love.” Others have highlighted the role of media in amplifying personal narratives, with Kokoro Alate gaining recognition for providing a platform for such authentic conversations.
The woman’s journey has also shed light on the cultural dynamics surrounding marriage and personal choices in Nigeria, where traditional expectations often clash with individual values.
Her story has touched people worldwide, showing that loneliness and hope are universal feelings. Many have responded with support, proving that personal stories can connect people globally.
