The recent AASECT Annual Conference in Las Vegas, themed “Artistry x Science: Discovering and Enhancing the Application of Sexology & Sexual Wellness,” marked a significant milestone where African voices took center stage. Among the distinguished speakers was Dr. Tolulope Oko-Igaire, Executive Director of the Institute of Counseling Nigeria (ICN) and Founder of the Intimacy Clinic, who passionately highlighted the wealth of knowledge Africa possesses in sex and sexuality education.
During her speech, Dr. Oko-Igaire emphasized, “Africa has a lot to offer when it comes to sex and sexuality education, but we lack an enabling environment where people can openly express themselves. That’s the work we are doing at the ICN and Intimacy Clinic to create safe spaces for open dialogue.” She added, “Some of the practices we have are not well known in the West, but they are very effective. If people are able to express themselves without shame, I believe the West has much to learn from Africa.”
Her remarks underscore a vital message: Africa’s rich cultural and traditional knowledge in sexuality can provide innovative solutions globally, provided that the environment encourages open conversation and acceptance.
In her speech, Dr. Oko-Igaire shared her emotional experience of representing Africa on an international platform for the first time. She also emphasized the significance of the event: “It wasn’t just about visibility; it was about validity. African voices in sex therapy are not only relevant but revolutionary.” Her words inspired many, highlighting her role as a pioneer and advocate for African excellence in the field.
Dr. Oko-Igaire is renowned as one of Africa’s leading sex therapists and mental health practitioners. She has played a pivotal role in transforming perceptions of mental health and sexuality across Nigeria and Africa. Her work covers depression treatment, PTSD counseling, human sexuality, dysfunctional behavioral therapy, and family dynamics.
“I started in an environment where professional counseling was virtually nonexistent, and discussing mental and sexual health issues was taboo,” she explained. “I singlehandedly elevated mental health counseling and psychotherapy from traditional, backward approaches to a professional, ethical practice.”
Her academic credentials include a Master’s degree from the University of Port Harcourt, advanced training from the International Institute of Counseling in the UK, and ongoing Ph.D. studies in Counseling Psychology and Sexology. She has received numerous awards and honors, including an honorary doctorate from The Development Institute of Counseling in the United States.
As the immediate past President of the Association for Counseling & Psychotherapy of Nigeria (ACMPN), and now the President and Chief Executive Officer of The Chartered Institute of Counseling in Nigeria, Dr. Oko-Igaire continues to advocate for increased awareness, education, and support for mental health and sexuality issues. She believes Africa has a vital role in shaping global conversations around sex and mental health.
“The world is listening. And Africa is no longer whispering. We’re speaking, teaching, and healing loudly and clearly,” she declared. Her leadership exemplifies the potential of African professionals to influence global discourse positively.
A dedicated clinical counselor, sex therapist, and mental health advocate, Dr. Oko-Igaire remains committed to advancing counseling and sexuality education in Africa. Her work continues to inspire a new generation of therapists, educators, and advocates across the continent.
