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Nollywood Star Abiola Adebayo Addresses Backlash Over Divorce Announcement

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By Prosper Mene 

Nollywood actress and podcaster Abiola Adebayo has publicly addressed the criticism and ridicule she faced online after announcing her separation from her husband, Oluwaseyi Akinrinde. The announcement, which coincided with her ex-husband’s birthday, sparked significant backlash, with some fans accusing Adebayo of deliberately choosing the timing to humiliate him.

In a heartfelt video posted on her YouTube channel, Adebayo clarified that her decision to share the news was intentional, aimed at controlling her narrative and preventing misinformation. Speaking in a mix of English and Yoruba, she stated, “I am human too. I posted about my marriage because I didn’t want people to tell my story for me, yet you all used it against me.” She emphasized that her ex-husband was informed of the announcement beforehand and that it was not intended to tarnish his image.

Adebayo, who married Akinrinde in April 2021 after a brief courtship, confirmed that the couple had been separated since April 2024. The pair, who share a son born via surrogacy in April 2023, are now focused on co-parenting. Addressing rumors, Adebayo firmly denied allegations of domestic violence in their relationship, stating, “No form of physical abuse or violence occurred.”

Looking back on the emotional toll, Adebayo revealed she had endured private struggles, saying, “While I go about making other people happy during the day, my pillow is drenched with my tears almost every night for the past 14 months.” She expressed regret that the marriage did not work out but prioritized her well-being, noting, “It’s better to stay alive to tell the story.”

The actress also faced comments from controversial singer Portable, who questioned her ability to interview wives on her podcast given her marital challenges. The remarks sparked further outrage online, but Adebayo urged her followers to show kindness, emphasizing that people often face silent battles.

Adebayo, a prominent figure in Nollywood known for roles in films like Fist Hit and her work on the TalkToB podcast, remains committed to her career and co-parenting her son. She concluded her response by calling for empathy, stating, “Let’s learn to be kind to people. You have no idea what others are going through.”

Fans and colleagues, including actress Regina Chukwu, have rallied in support, praising Adebayo’s resilience and transparency.

 

 

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Couple Arrested in Ebonyi for Scalding Widow with Hot Water in Violent Dispute

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By Prosper Mene 

A couple, Chigozie and Ginika, have been arrested by the Ebonyi State Police for allegedly pouring hot water on their neighbor, a widow named Cynthia Ucha, during a violent altercation in Abakaliki, the state capital. The incident, which took place on Akidi Street, has shocked the local community and raised concerns about ongoing harassment of the victim.

According to eyewitness Ozioma, the incident started from a verbal disagreement between Ginika and Cynthia, which escalated into a physical assault. Ozioma alleged that Ginika enlisted her husband, children, and brother-in-law to join in attacking the widow. “They beat her mercilessly with sticks and other dangerous objects,” Ozioma recounted. “While Cynthia was already severely injured, Ginika fetched a pot of boiling water and poured it on her.”

The witness further claimed that the couple had repeatedly threatened Cynthia since she moved into the compound, despite her quiet and reserved nature. “She’s been quiet and keeps to herself, but Ginika and her family have constantly harassed her,” Ozioma added.

The Ebonyi State Police acted swiftly, apprehending Chigozie and Ginika. The suspects were initially detained at the Central Police Station before being transferred to the Special Weapons and Tactics (SWAT) unit at the Police Headquarters in Abakaliki. Confirming the arrests, Police Public Relations Officer SP Joshua Ukandu stated that the couple remains in custody and will face charges in court once investigations are complete.

The brutal attack sparked outrage among residents, with many calling for justice for Cynthia Ucha. The incident points out the need for stronger measures to protect vulnerable individuals, such as widows, from harassment and violence in local communities.

Authorities have assured the public that the case will be thoroughly investigated, and justice will be served. Further updates are expected as the investigation progresses.

 

 

 

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Tragedy Strikes as Woman Collapses and Dies in Ado-Ekiti Hotel

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By Prosper Mene 

A saddening incident has shaken the capital city of Ekiti State, as a yet-to-be-identified woman tragically slumped and died in a prominent hotel located along NTA Road, Ado-Ekiti. The hotel, reportedly owned by a well-known politician and situated adjacent to a private radio station, became the scene of the unexpected tragedy, prompting swift response from local authorities.

According to reports, the woman collapsed in one of the hotel’s bathrooms and was immediately rushed to a nearby hospital. Despite efforts to save her, medical personnel confirmed her death upon arrival. The Ekiti State Police Command, through its Public Relations Officer, SP Sunday Abutu, has acknowledged the incident and stated that investigations are underway to uncover the circumstances surrounding the woman’s sudden collapse.

Details about the deceased, including her identity and the cause of death, remain undisclosed as the police continue their inquiries. The incident has endeared concern among residents of Ado-Ekiti, with many expressing shock over the event in such a high-profile establishment.

Authorities have assured the public that a thorough investigation will be conducted to determine whether the incident was due to natural causes or other factors. The hotel management has yet to release an official statement regarding the tragedy.

Editor’s Note: The identity of the deceased has been withheld pending notification of her family. The public is urged to refrain from speculation as authorities work to establish the facts.

 

 

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First Lady Remi Tinubu Honored with ‘Ugosimba 1’ Title by Enugu Traditional Rulers

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By Prosper Mene 

In a vibrant ceremony steeped in cultural significance, the traditional rulers of Enugu State have conferred the prestigious chieftaincy title of “Ugosimba 1 of Enugu,” meaning “Jewel of Empowerment” in Igbo, on Nigeria’s First Lady, Senator Remi Tinubu. The honor, bestowed during her two-day working visit to the South-East region, recognizes her relentless efforts in advancing women’s empowerment and social development across Nigeria.

The conferment ceremony, held in Enugu, was a highlight of Mrs. Tinubu’s visit, which focused on strengthening community health initiatives and supporting women in the region. Addressing the gathering, the First Lady urged traditional rulers to maximize their grassroots influence to champion campaigns against critical health issues, including cervical cancer, tuberculosis, HIV/AIDS, and female genital mutilation. She emphasized the crucial role of local leaders in driving public awareness and fostering healthier communities.

As part of her visit, Mrs. Tinubu distributed professional kits to midwives across the South-East, a move aimed at bolstering maternal healthcare services and empowering women in the health sector. “The chieftaincy title of Ugosimba is not just symbolic, it represents a recognition of real action,” the event organizers noted, praising her commitment to tangible social impact.

The title has sparked varied reactions on social media. While many celebrated the recognition of her contributions, some expressed skepticism, referencing past controversies, others standing on the ground that Igbos do not confer chieftaincy title to women. Nonetheless, the conferment shows her growing influence in promoting gender equity and community development.

The event marks a significant moment in Mrs. Tinubu’s ongoing mission to uplift Nigerian women and strengthen healthcare systems nationwide.

 

 

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Patience Jonathan Earns PHD, shares her Journey

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Former Nigerian First Lady, Dame Patience Jonathan, has shared an inspiring account of her a journey to earning a Doctor of Philosophy (PhD) in Psychology, Guidance and Counselling from Ignatius Ajuru University of Education, revealing that intense pressure from lecturers nearly led her to abandon the pursuit. Speaking during a testimony and thanksgiving service at Streams of Joy International Church, led by Pastor Jerry Eze, Jonathan recounted how the academic demands and high expectations from her lecturers tested her resolve.

Jonathan, wife of former President Goodluck Jonathan, described the three-year program as feeling like “forty years” due to the challenges she faced, including repeated assignments and moments of frustration. “At times, my lecturer would get me angry and say, ‘Go and repeat this page,’” she shared, adding that she questioned the need for a PhD after her tenure as First Lady. “I said, I have finished my career. What am I going to do with a PhD? But God told me, ‘If your children can make it, why can’t you?’”

Despite being the oldest student in her class, Jonathan embraced the humility of learning alongside younger peers, asking questions repeatedly to grasp concepts. “I was the ‘Mama’ among them, and I wasn’t ashamed,” she said, reflecting on her perseverance. She credited divine guidance, family support, particularly from her husband, Dr. Goodluck Jonathan, and spiritual encouragement from Pastor Jerry Eze for her success.

During the university’s 43rd Postgraduate Convocation Ceremony, Jonathan dedicated her achievement to Nigerian women and youths, emphasizing that age should never be a barrier to education. “I feel that no age is too late to achieve your academic dreams, whether you are young or old. If I can do it, you can also do it,” she stated, urging Nigerians to embrace lifelong learning. She also called for national unity, saying, “Nigeria belongs to all of us. We will work together to make Nigeria great.”

Her story has resonated widely, with social media posts praising her determination. One user noted, “If Patience can do it, what’s stopping you?” Her testimony serves as a powerful encouragement for women and youths to pursue education fearlessly, regardless of circumstance.

 

 

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Maryam Abacha Denies Claims of Late Husband Stashing Public Funds Abroad

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Maryam Abacha, widow of former Nigerian military Head of State General Sani Abacha, has publicly dismissed longstanding allegations that her late husband looted billions of dollars from Nigeria’s public funds and stashed them in foreign accounts. In a recent statement, Mrs. Abacha challenged accusers to provide concrete evidence of the alleged financial misconduct, emphasizing that no definitive proof has been presented to substantiate the claims.

“Who is the witness of the monies that were being stashed? Did you see the signature or the evidence of any monies stashed abroad?” Mrs. Abacha questioned during a public address. She further claimed that funds her husband had reportedly secured for Nigeria mysteriously “vanished” shortly after his death in 1998, suggesting that subsequent administrations may have mismanaged or misappropriated these resources. “The monies that my husband kept for Nigeria, in a few months, the monies vanished. People are not talking about that,” she stated.

Mrs. Abacha expressed frustration with the media and public perception, accusing journalists of spreading unverified narratives and urging them to “educate the people” rather than “bastardise people.” She also criticized Nigerians for readily accepting allegations without scrutiny, stating, “And because Nigerians are fools, they listen to everything.”

However, her claims have garnered mixed reactions. Some sources, including international reports, contradict her assertions, pointing to legal actions and bank records that confirm over $3.6 billion was recovered from foreign accounts linked to General Abacha by countries such as the United States, Switzerland, and Jersey. These recoveries have been cited as evidence of corruption during his regime from 1993 to 1998.

Beyond addressing the financial allegations, Mrs. Abacha called for unity and respect among Nigerians, emphasizing that no single individual, including her husband, former military leader Ibrahim Babangida, or businessman Moshood Abiola, is solely responsible for Nigeria’s challenges or successes. “Nobody is big enough for Nigeria,” she said.

The controversy surrounding General Abacha’s alleged looting of public funds has been a longstanding case and it remains a polarizing topic in Nigeria, with Mrs. Abacha’s recent statements reigniting debates about transparency, accountability, and the legacy of her husband’s administration.

 

 

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Africa’s Voice Shines at International Sexuality Conference: Dr. Tolulope Oko-Igaire Advocates for Recognition of African Perspectives

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The recent AASECT Annual Conference in Las Vegas, themed “Artistry x Science: Discovering and Enhancing the Application of Sexology & Sexual Wellness,” marked a significant milestone where African voices took center stage. Among the distinguished speakers was Dr. Tolulope Oko-Igaire, Executive Director of the Institute of Counseling Nigeria (ICN) and Founder of the Intimacy Clinic, who passionately highlighted the wealth of knowledge Africa possesses in sex and sexuality education.

During her speech, Dr. Oko-Igaire emphasized, “Africa has a lot to offer when it comes to sex and sexuality education, but we lack an enabling environment where people can openly express themselves. That’s the work we are doing at the ICN and Intimacy Clinic to create safe spaces for open dialogue.” She added, “Some of the practices we have are not well known in the West, but they are very effective. If people are able to express themselves without shame, I believe the West has much to learn from Africa.”

Her remarks underscore a vital message: Africa’s rich cultural and traditional knowledge in sexuality can provide innovative solutions globally, provided that the environment encourages open conversation and acceptance.

In her speech, Dr. Oko-Igaire shared her emotional experience of representing Africa on an international platform for the first time. She also emphasized the significance of the event: “It wasn’t just about visibility; it was about validity. African voices in sex therapy are not only relevant but revolutionary.” Her words inspired many, highlighting her role as a pioneer and advocate for African excellence in the field.

Dr. Oko-Igaire is renowned as one of Africa’s leading sex therapists and mental health practitioners. She has played a pivotal role in transforming perceptions of mental health and sexuality across Nigeria and Africa. Her work covers depression treatment, PTSD counseling, human sexuality, dysfunctional behavioral therapy, and family dynamics.

“I started in an environment where professional counseling was virtually nonexistent, and discussing mental and sexual health issues was taboo,” she explained. “I singlehandedly elevated mental health counseling and psychotherapy from traditional, backward approaches to a professional, ethical practice.”

Her academic credentials include a Master’s degree from the University of Port Harcourt, advanced training from the International Institute of Counseling in the UK, and ongoing Ph.D. studies in Counseling Psychology and Sexology. She has received numerous awards and honors, including an honorary doctorate from The Development Institute of Counseling in the United States.

As the immediate past President of the Association for Counseling & Psychotherapy of Nigeria (ACMPN), and now the President and Chief Executive Officer of The Chartered Institute of Counseling in Nigeria, Dr. Oko-Igaire continues to advocate for increased awareness, education, and support for mental health and sexuality issues. She believes Africa has a vital role in shaping global conversations around sex and mental health.

“The world is listening. And Africa is no longer whispering. We’re speaking, teaching, and healing loudly and clearly,” she declared. Her leadership exemplifies the potential of African professionals to influence global discourse positively.

A dedicated clinical counselor, sex therapist, and mental health advocate, Dr. Oko-Igaire remains committed to advancing counseling and sexuality education in Africa. Her work continues to inspire a new generation of therapists, educators, and advocates across the continent.

 

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Lagos, SOGON Strengthen Partnership to Combat Maternal and Neonatal Deaths

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By Prosper Mene 

The Lagos State Ministry of Health has announced a renewed collaboration with the Society of Gynecology and Obstetrics of Nigeria (SOGON), Lagos Sector, aimed at tackling the persistent challenge of maternal and neonatal mortality in the state. This partnership seeks to address preventable causes of death during pregnancy and childbirth, reinforcing Lagos’ commitment to improving reproductive healthcare.

During a recent visit by a SOGON delegation, led by former National President Prof. Rotimi Akinola and Lagos Sector Chairman Prof. Abidoye Gbadegesin, Lagos State Commissioner for Health, Prof. Akin Abayomi, praised SOGON’s voluntary efforts to support maternal and reproductive health. The delegation emphasized the need for legislative backing and the revival of a volunteer obstetrician scheme to bolster healthcare delivery. Prof. Akinola highlighted the significant impact of unsafe abortions on maternal mortality, urging policies that allow healthcare providers to act safely and responsibly to save lives.

The partnership will focus on institutionalizing the Maternal and Perinatal Death Surveillance and Response (MPDSR) system to enhance maternal health surveillance and accountability. This initiative aims to address critical issues such as severe bleeding, infections, high blood pressure during pregnancy, and unsafe abortions, which remain leading causes of maternal deaths in Nigeria.

Nigeria accounts for nearly 30% of global maternal deaths, with approximately 75,000 women dying annually during childbirth, according to UN estimates for 2023. Lagos, as a major hub, is prioritizing innovative and community-centered interventions to reduce these numbers. The state’s collaboration with SOGON is seen as a vital step toward achieving this goal, with both parties committed to improving access to quality maternal care and strengthening healthcare infrastructure.

Prof. Abayomi reaffirmed the state’s readiness to deepen this partnership, stating, “This is about saving lives, not debating morals. Maternal death from preventable causes is unacceptable.” The Lagos State government and SOGON are calling for increased policy support and resources to ensure sustainable progress in reducing maternal and neonatal mortality across the state.

 

 

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Nollywood Actress Bolaji Ogunmola Survives Car Accident and Ceiling Collapse in May

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By Prosper Mene

Nollywood actress and filmmaker Bolaji Ogunmola is expresses gratitude after narrowly escaping death in two terrifying incidents last month. The dynamic star, known for her roles in films like Hotel Labamba, shared her harrowing experiences on Instagram, revealing she survived both a car accident and a POP ceiling collapse in her home.
In a heartfelt “May Dump” collage posted on her Instagram, Ogunmola recounted the shocking events, describing how she “cheated death twice.” The first incident involved a car accident, details of which remain limited, but left the actress shaken yet unharmed. The second occurred while filming upstairs in her home when a small crack in the ceiling was noticed. Moments later, the POP ceiling in her living room violently collapsed, scattering debris across the space. “We were actually filming upstairs, and my PM was trying to do a video for me to see a small crack on the ceiling… everything came down,” Ogunmola wrote in response to a fan, sharing a video of the aftermath.
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Known for her transparency and humor, took a lighthearted approach in addressing the incidents, jokingly telling fans, “Don’t just say sorry, ask for my account number or get me a new car.” Despite the playful tone, her gratitude for surviving both ordeals was evident, inspiring fans and followers who flooded her posts with messages of support.
Ogunmola is grateful and thankful she is alive today.

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Nigerian Grandmother Sacked from London University Job Over Misplaced Bracelet

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Janet Olufunke Damiro, a 71-year-old Nigerian grandmother, is battling to restore her reputation after being dismissed from her cleaning job at the London School of Economics (LSE) over allegations of stealing a bracelet. Damiro, who worked at the university for 13 years, was sacked in late April 2025 for “gross misconduct” following an incident involving a misplaced bracelet at the Saw Swee Hock Student Centre.

Damiro, who immigrated to the UK in 1971, told Metro UK she found the gold bracelet during her shift and placed it in her purse for safekeeping, intending to report it but forgetting to do so. Three days later, university management questioned her about the lost item. She immediately returned the bracelet and apologized profusely. Despite her cooperation, she was suspended and subsequently terminated, a decision that has sparked outrage among her colleagues and union members.

“I was devastated. I’ve worked hard for 13 years, six days a week, and this is how it ends,” Damiro said, emphasizing her innocence. Over 70 coworkers and union representatives have rallied in her support, condemning the university’s handling of the situation as unfair and overly harsh.

The dismissal has drawn significant attention on social media, with posts on expressing anger and disbelief at the treatment of the elderly cleaner. Many have called for a review of the decision, citing Damiro’s long service and the lack of evidence of malicious intent.

The London School of Economics has not publicly commented on the case, but the incident raises questions about workplace policies on lost items and the treatment of long-serving staff. Damiro remains determined to clear her name, supported by her community as she scales through the aftermath of this ordeal

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