By Prosper Mene
Former Big Brother Naija (BBNaija) housemate and entrepreneur Uriel Oputa has taken a bold stand against the trend of age-shaming women, igniting widespread support online. In a powerful Instagram post shared on Sunday, the reality TV star condemned Nigerian men who mock women for growing older, calling the practice an insult to the natural process of aging.
In her candid message, Uriel questioned why aging, a universal and inevitable part of life, is weaponized as a source of shame rather than celebrated as a blessing. “There is no shame in aging, aging is a privilege,” she declared. “I’d rather grow old than be six feet under with regrets. Some people have all the money in the world and still wish they had one more day to breathe.” Her words resonated with many, showcasing the societal pressure women face to defy aging while men are often spared similar scrutiny.
Uriel’s video, which accompanied her post, emphasized that living to an old age is a gift, not a flaw. “It is an insult to God to shame someone for growing older,” she stated, urging a cultural shift in how aging is perceived. The post quickly gained traction, with fans and followers praising her for her confidence and refusal to bow to societal expectations. Many commended her for addressing a deeply rooted issue that unequally affects women.
This is not the first time Uriel has ignited conversation with her outspoken views. Earlier this month, she raised eyebrows by commenting on the trend of Igbo men marrying significantly older women for immigration benefits, calling for more authenticity in relationships. Known for her unfiltered takes on cultural and social issues, Uriel continues to use her platform to challenge harmful norms.
Her latest message has started a broader discussion about aging and gender dynamics in Nigeria, with social media users sharing personal stories of age-related criticism.
